Netflix/Adolescence and Gottman Emotion Coaching
Without emotional understanding from a caring adult, a child can feel distress or even a sense of shame.
Daniel J. Siegel , Mary Hartzell • Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive: 10th Anniversary Edition
Notice, too, that the coach acknowledges each of these emotional places without trying to fix or convince him to be otherwise. The coach accesses certain qualities in the relational field and, staying present, becomes a stabilizing influence for Neal. Neal eventually becomes able to reorganize himself around a different possibility. With some addit
... See moreDoug Silsbee • Presence-Based Coaching: Cultivating Self-Generative Leaders Through Mind, Body, and Heart
One way to back off from parental overinvolvement is to allow a child more leeway and privacy with their own feelings. By imposing our emotions on them less, we allow our children to develop their own emotions, and their awareness of them. Rather than taking their emotional temperature frequently with probing questions, we can allow our instincts t
... See moreKim John Payne M.Ed. • Simplicity Parenting: Using the Extraordinary Power of Less to Raise Calmer, Happier, and More Secure Kids
They wait until the emotional storm surge passes and provide calm moments to reflect on changes that need to be made. There is a focus on management of feelings and actions and on developing better responses for the future.
Tamara Phd Rosier • Your Brain's Not Broken
Children face crises in their emotional life where they simply don’t know what to do. They need us close by, paying attention to the situation and giving them the kind of help that gets them through their dilemma in such a way that they are stronger on the other side of it.