we need to avoid an endless search mode, even on this side of Wilber’s map. Just as we won’t find our life purpose in the physical world—in the perfect job, place to live, mate, or role in life—we don’t want to use the search mode in the Land of Purposeful Paradoxes, either. That part of the universe is just as large and infinite as the physical re

“How often I found where I should be going only by setting out for somewhere else.”

Growth Is Not a Just Cause Imagine you walk out of your house one morning and see your neighbor packing up his car. “Where are you going?” you ask. “Vacation,” he replies. “Nice. Where are you going?” you follow up, curious. “I told you, vacation,” he replies again. “I got that,” you say, “but where are you going?” Exasperated, your neighbor replie