being a good host is a huge life-hack : ) big or small, it’s always a gift to gather. hosting people says “hey, i appreciate you. please take up more space in my life” a few of my favourite genres of gathering —ft. some incredible hosts : > show ‘n tells (i did this for my... See more

Major cheat code in life: Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.