
Saved by Alara and
(It’s Great To) Suck at Something
Saved by Alara and
While failure may build character and tenacity, it’s not as good at building skills.
We need to allow ourselves the fluidity and grace to change the way we view ourselves, to allow for failure and evolution. To move from “I’m a perfect student,” to “I’m someone who tries their best in their studies.”
She credits her success partly to a question that her father would ask her every week when she was growing up. “What have you failed at this week?” If Sara didn’t have an answer, her father would be disappointed. To her father, failing to try was far more disappointing than failure itself.