
How to Train a Wild Elephant

responsibility. This includes taking responsibility for everything, from our personal messes, including the physical messes of a dirty mug or an unmade bed, to our psychological messes, including misunderstandings and mistakes.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
Inner Critic
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
negativity begins to color our awareness, often without our even knowing it.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
good things come to pass, well, that’s wonderful, but the mind quickly puts these aside. The mind’s concern is protecting us from the negative, the dangerous.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
It’s because the mind doesn’t have to be worried about the positive things that might happen.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
This practice helps us stop, open our senses, and become receptive to what is available in our lives just now.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
We don’t appreciate their absence until we’ve suffered their presence.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
Can we find anything, anywhere, in this moment, that is cause for appreciation? We look, listen, feel.
Jan Chozen Bays MD • How to Train a Wild Elephant
Appreciation practice is an investigation.