“How to Say “Fuck Off” Without Ever Raising Your Voice—And Still Break Them Inside”
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“How to Say “Fuck Off” Without Ever Raising Your Voice—And Still Break Them Inside”
Sometimes the best way to end the argument faster, or at least deflate it, is to relate to their feelings. This may be a tough one to put into play, but they’ll respond better to a gentler approach.
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1. “Oh, I see exactly what you’re doing.”
(Smiling. Watching. Withdrawing.)
2. “That’s fine—but not with me.”
(Let them keep the habit. You exit.)
3. “I’m not upset—I’m just done.”
(No noise. Just closure.)
4. “No need... See more
flagitaainstagram.comSaying “No” gives the speaker the feeling of safety, security, and control. You use a question that prompts a “No” answer, and your counterpart feels that by turning you down he has proved that he’s in the driver’s seat. Good negotiators welcome—even invite—a solid “No” to start, as a sign that the other party is engaged and thinking.