How to Be a More Interesting Conversationalist
Here’s what I’ve found to be a far more productive method: Treat the conversation as if it’s a puzzle. Why do they believe what they believe? Why do I believe what I believe? What evidence would change their mind or my mind? What do we agree on? Is there anything productive we can do together, even if we don’t agree on every issue? Imagine you are ... See more
Ask them about experiences and those moments that caused them to change. Ask how they feel, rather than about facts. Reframe your questions so they are deeper. Ask follow-ups.