Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh

If you are the masculine partner, practice the heart-precision of conscious feeling, touching without grasping, tasting without drooling. Like a surfer on a wave, without sticking in one place too long, feel every nuance of your lover’s energy, her breath, her movements, her shivers, tensions, and whispers—and lovingly take her to the beach of open

When you notice your mind wandering to a sexual fantasy, consciously guide the imagery toward love’s fullness, so that all the characters in the fantasy are heartfully served by your sexual gifts and opened as love’s unbound ecstasy.

Freedom is openness is love.

you are afraid to yield yourself completely in the ecstasy of physical love with your woman—going beyond all sense of control and separate self so your heart and her heart are one in the midst of absolutely abandoned passion—then you will also be afraid to yield yourself completely in divine freedom.