if the ancient wisdom of Vedas are correct and the whole universe is just God playing elaborate rounds of hide'n'seek with Godself, then God is a super-freak.

We get stuck when we look for “reasons” to motivate us to action, because some part of us knows that there simply is no “reason.”

This is an insight that can be very, very offensive to our egos: the idea that on some level we could want or enjoy “awful” things in our lives is scary and troubling to most people.

Tantrikas therefore traditionally meditate on intensely charged subject matter like sex and death, and focus on learning how to transmute the raw energies of emotion and instinct

it's very important that you let kinky enjoyment, pure and simple, be far, far more important to you than the “change” that you consciously want to bring about.

Imagine this: your mind is a holographic film projector. The film that's playing is in full color and imprinted with all of your conditioning, all of your identity, all of your habitual patterns, every truth you would like to grasp onto. The light that shines in the projector is the light of consciousness itself. The big light of consciousness

The paradox is that once you fully commit to being who you already are, having what you already have, and hugely celebrating it, you become a masterful practical magician, a force of nature capable of shifting circumstances very easily.

Likewise, in Existential Kink we focus on delving into taboo territories of our unconscious minds and learn to stay present with the high sensation there, in a way that transmutes the previously-stuck energy into free awareness.

1. Having is evidence of wanting