Cultivating Non-Romantic Intimacy
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Cultivating Non-Romantic Intimacy
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Kat Vellos • We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better Friendships
These are questions I made for a friend to ask her love interest, but they were further along and she wanted to understand how she could make him feel loved.
Questions you can ask:
- What are some examples of moments in your life where you felt the most loved, and why? Or deeply held? Or deeply safe? (It's better to ask for concrete examples from the
... See moreFeeling disconnected. Intimacy is built on sharing weaknesses, and friendship involves sharing vulnerabilities.
John Townsend • Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't
36 questions that lead to love
Part 1
Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
Would you like to be famous? In what way?
Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
What would constitute a "perfect" day for you?
When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
If you were
I suggest writing emails to your friends. Writing with an audience in mind makes the writing better, and writing to a friend means you won’t get hung up on how you sound. You’ll become closer, too, to whoever you share your thoughts with, and odds are you’ll draw the same thoughtfulness out of them. Your inbox will become less of a place for coupon
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