But in this lifetime, it’s set up for them to win every time they take charge and accept the opportunities presented to them.

“I’m concerned we may have a misunderstanding, and I want you to know I would never do anything to intentionally hurt your feelings.” Or: “I think we may have had a misunderstanding, and I don’t want you to feel rejected.”

Capricorn North Node people have a feeling that there is a job they were born to do, a “higher mission” that is part of their destiny. If they don’t realize this life purpose, part of them feels deeply unfulfilled and guilty. That destiny is different for each of these folks, but inwardly they know which direction to take. It will always involve ac

Instead of playing the nurturing mother role in this lifetime, they need to put more emphasis on the “father” role—taking responsibility to help others achieve constructive goals.

It’s healthy for them to have lots of outer-directed activities.

For example, if they are anxious about making a phone call, they can ask themselves: “Regardless of the outcome, will making this call give me a sense of self-respect?” If the answer is yes, they will “win” by making the call. If the answer is no, they should re-think their position.

On the other hand, some people may indeed want to be intimate with the Capricorn North Node, but she may not value closeness with them. The person might be a business associate whom she sees regularly; but when they establish intimacy, the Capricorn North Node ends up feeling drained or depressed. Perhaps underneath she doesn’t really respect the o

months rather than actively participate to correct the problem, silently sending the violator Light, compassion, understanding, and love.

When they are holding back and not reaching for their goals, they feel they don’t deserve attention and thereby keep themselves from receiving the very thing they crave the most.