Another problem with fantasizing is that it moves reality into the future, which makes Aquarius North Node people much less effective in handling the present.

However, if the motive is to help other people, there’s no limit to the heights they can attain! The humanitarian side of their nature must be developed.

Unfortunately, such fantasies take the “edge” off, giving Aquarius North Nodes a certain level of satisfaction that blocks creative action.

Aquarius North Node people have a mechanism in the psyche that reflects on self-glory and inflates the ego—then the power goes out of their lives and they attract defeat. Whenever they notice the mechanism activating, their best bet is to immediately disengage it. They must stop thinking how glorious they are and consciously remind themselves:

the universe often keeps success from them until they learn to respond in a balanced and gracious way.

causing them to live beyond their means, adopt a superior attitude, and always want “more, more, more.”

The ego has been so built up that in this incarnation they practically have to starve it to regain inner balance.

These folks are much better off when they respond authentically from who they really are—and then see how the other person responds and whether or not they approve of the other person. When they interact honestly with another person, the other’s response will show them whether they want to spend time with that person. This is a stronger, healthier

they are so accustomed to sacrificing their real selves to perform a “role” and earn approval that they all too easily behave in ways they feel are expected—contrary to their own hearts.