Andy Claremont

A good life doesn’t ask you to be good at everything.

It asks you to find the small circle where you have unusual leverage, and to be peacefully average at most of the rest.

It’s like walking around with a metal detector over your own life, waiting for those little “beeps” of intensity.

There’s a point in your work/career/journey when you reach an escape velocity of sorts from your peers and the world around you. What you offer to others is just different enough that you become your own category of one: nothing but you will do. Not better, different.

The less obvious way to buy back your time is to say no. Passing on a promotion might “buy” you more time with family. Declining the dinner invite might “pay” for the time you need to exercise. We buy back our time not only with the money we spend, but also with the opportunities we decline.

The more clearly you know how you want to spend your days,

This rant via Shalom Auslander

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