Abby Garcia
@abbs
Abby Garcia
@abbs
inspiration to continue showing up. you cannot achieve artistic autonomy without agency
“Date people that like you” is more of a reminder to myself now to leave. It’s clear when someone feels like I’m a nuisance rather than a compliment to their story and vice versa. When it’s obvious someone is looking for completely different traits than you have, and your personality is legit not something they can tolerate, it’s okay to walk away.
Believe yourself, believe them, and don’t hold on to meet any societal “ride or die” hogwash. How about I live, for me, until I meet someone who simply adores me and wants to live with me too? What if you could have a long, beautiful life instead of a tumultuous one, cut short by a relationship full of warning signs? Tolerating dislike, even for a moment, as a woman, is a little too close to flirting with the idea of death.