unoptimal

the real competitive advantage in life is internal approval. you cannot compete with someone who is secure with who they are, what they want, and what they bring

I don’t like living alone. This insight brought to you by my brother, who is visiting me and currently laying on my living room floor laughing at something at his phone. I feel warm and calm and deeply okay.

Have you tried doing what you're currently doing, but like you actually wanted it to succeed?