Stuart Evans

to love someone is to attend a thousand births of the people they’re becoming

it’s likely that 80% of our individual bad behavior is attributable to versions of ourselves that exist only 20% of the time. For example, that 10pm version of you who drinks excessively, texts the ex that isn’t good for you and neglects basic self care.

Around the holiday season, this 20% version of yourself can become fully in charge where one mor... See more

Dating really is a searching quest but its important to always keep in mind that it goes in two directions. You want to find someone and you want to be found. Many people spend most of the time on the first point. Working on the second point may be more fruitful.

“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Not Viktor Frankl