Star Sapphires
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Star Sapphires
Put another way, if you want to have a successful conversation with someone, you don’t have to ask them about their worst memories or how they prepare for telephone calls. You just have to ask them to describe how they feel about their life—rather than the facts of their life—and then ask lots of follow-ups.
Charles Duhigg • Supercommunicators
We have normalised connection as a trial subscription: no long-term commitment, cancel anytime, no emotional penalty.
Tamara • The Coward’s Exit
The lie of control is that it keeps you safe. But what it really keeps is distance from intimacy, from surprise, from your own evolution. We choreograph conversations down to the last emoji because we fear what might happen if we say what we really mean. We script our futures with five-year plans and productivity hacks and “manifestation boards” be... See more
