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A man’s eros, his capacity for love and relatedness, must be freed from attachment to the mother, and able to reach out to a woman who is his contemporary; otherwise he remains a demanding, dependent, childish person.”
bell hooks • All About Love: New Visions (Love Song to the Nation Book 1)
“There seems to be no question but that the human male would be promiscuous in his choice of sexual partners throughout the whole of his life if there were no social restrictions.”27 For most men and many women, sexual monogamy leads inexorably to monotomy. It’s important to understand this process has nothing to do with the attractiveness of the l
... See moreCacilda Jetha • Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships
Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman.
Rollo Tomassi • The Rational Male
Maia Szalavitz • Dopamine: The Currency of Desire
Mark and Betsy’s marriage turned out to be a match made in heaven, partly because they had complementary pathogenic beliefs. Their strengths and their weaknesses lined up in such a way as to sustain a passionate connection. Good chemistry, in other words, doesn’t depend only on the similarity between two people, but also on the precise way that the
... See moreMichael J. Bader • Arousal
And when we say WOMEN, we think FEMALE—the sex.
Charlotte Gilman • Herland
Women don’t want a man to cheat, but they love a Man who could cheat.