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To anticipate a common misunderstanding at this point: If a man continually neglects a wife he loves—goes off to a party, leaves her ill at home and unattended—and if she leaves him and he is then devastated and miserable, we might say that he was “selfish.” But it would be truer to say that he had a fool’s notion of his self-interest. His
... See moreNathaniel Branden • Honoring the Self: The Pyschology of Confidence and Respect
On Alternative Intelligence
Against rationality, logical thinking, and enlightenment. Towards feeling, collectivism, and alternative modes of thinking.
Esmeralda Anstrauta • 4 cards
Idealistic but unrealistic beliefs can do a lot of damage to your relationship. Take the idea of romantic destiny, or “soul mates”—the belief that two people are deliberately brought together by unseen forces. Research on hundreds of college students has shown that such expectations are correlated with dysfunctional patterns in relationships, such
... See moreOprah Winfrey • Build the Life You Want
In summary, my advice to those seeking a philosophy of life parallels my advice to those seeking a mate. They should realize that which mate is best for them depends on their personality and circumstances. This means that no one is the ideal mate for everyone and that some people are a suitable mate for no one at all. Furthermore, they should
... See moreWilliam B. Irvine • A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy
