Build the Life You Want

Following a metaphysical path allows us to get a more accurate perspective on life by zooming out on our quotidian worries and everyday cares. It makes us happier by taking the focus off ourselves and putting it instead on the majesties of the universe.

If it excites you a lot and frightens you a little, this is a signal to move forward. If it simply frightens you, you need a lot more information. If it deadens you when you imagine doing the new job, the answer is clear: turn it down.

So, you might be asking, which is the right path for you? In your heart, you probably know already. One of the models we just described made you feel excited and maybe a little scared. Another deadened you inside.

“Spiral” careers are the last category. This is like a series of smaller careers. People in this model might make a pretty dramatic career shift every decade or so, but there is a method to the madness. They are using their skills and knowledge in one field and applying it to another, while getting a variety of experiences for their own fulfillment

“transitory” career, which jumps around all over the place. From the outside it looks chaotic:

“Steady-state” careers are those that are associated with one job over decades, where one doesn’t advance much but increases in expertise.

You stay with one job until something fancier that pays better comes along. This is what psychologists call the “linear” career model.

second, related intrinsic goal, which is service to others—the sense that your job is making the world a better place.

The best way to enjoy earned success is to find ways to get better at your job, whether that leads to promotions and higher pay or not.