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redirect each attack back to the narcissist’s underlying vulnerability.
Rokelle Lerner • The Object of My Affection Is in My Reflection: Coping with Narcissists
The most successful people I know live in their own little world.
They’ve programmed their own video game.
It’s addictive. It’s enjoyable. It provides a logical sequence of steps that results in experience. It helps them understand what’s worth paying attention to and what’s worth learning. It is a frame for their mind th... See more
Dan Koe • the fastest way to create a new life
all the boundaries we construct, the one between self and not-self is the most fundamental.
Ken Wilber • No Boundary: Eastern and Western Approaches to Personal Growth
One of the easiest ways of controlling the ego is not giving it the things it craves.
Stuart Wilde • Infinite Self: 33 Steps to Reclaiming Your Inner Power
People can spend a great deal of time constructing their lives and relationships so as to not have to set boundaries as much as possible.
Cristien Storm • Living in Liberation: Boundary Setting, Self Care and Social Change
This, by the way, is exactly what narcissists want. They want you to submit your power to them. They want you to quake in your shoes at the thought of a confrontation with them.
Rokelle Lerner • The Object of My Affection Is in My Reflection: Coping with Narcissists
The Self
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Selfhood
Brianne Johnson • 21 cards
And just as vampires cringe when they’re in the presence of crosses or holy water, narcissists recoil at ordinary adult experiences such as boredom, uncertainty, accountability, and, most of all, having to give as well as receive. (Bernstein, 2002)