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Marion Woodman said, “Children who are not loved in their very beingness do not know how to love themselves. As adults, they have to learn to nourish, to mother their own lost child.” This learning happens in stages. We, in essence, grow into the job. Just as a woman doesn’t automatically know how to mother offspring but her instincts and her heart
... See moreJasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
From Positive Intelligence
“Given the ubiquity of the Judge’s conditional love game, I have
embarked on a very different kind of game with my son to prevent a
strong version of his Judge from taking hold. I start tickling him and tell
him that I will only stop if he keeps giving me the right answers, which
he has learned to give over the years. Here’s h
... See moreWhen Mother doesn’t give love or praise easily, children often go to great lengths to conform to what they think Mother wants. They monitor themselves carefully and create high standards they hold themselves to.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
Children are the wildish nature,
Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés • Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
“She is consistently warm and available, taking time to allow the child to satisfy his curiosity and share it. She praises his successes and applauds his discoveries. She creates opportunities for him to discover more than he could on his own and makes a conscious effort for these explorations to be fun and filled with laughter.”
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
want to stress that there’s no point wishing your unconsciousness didn’t exist. Rather, understanding the ramifications of unconsciousness and becoming aware of its consequences can motivate a person to embark on the penetrating self-examination that’s required to become an effective parent.
His Holiness The Dalai Lama • The Conscious Parent
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind
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Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive: 10th Anniversary Edition
Daniel J. Siegel , Mary Hartzell
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The children are required to fulfill their parent(s)’ needs and wishes, and this is often controlled by validation only around domains that the parent(s) finds worthy. The child is molded to meet the parent(s)’ expectations. When the child fails to meet these expectations, there are significant consequences, which feel like the loss of the parent(s
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