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On Finding Your People:
I’m told I have an unusual talent for finding wonderful people. Below is my strategy for having a rich social life in any large city
Disclaimer: This will require you acting in a way that is not normal. You may need to decide whether you want to be normal yet lonely or unusual yet connected
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Never Eat Alone, Expanded and Updated: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
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Real networking—the kind that improves every aspect of your life, not just your Rolodex list—isn’t about slick company manners or mutual advantage. It’s about love. Does that sound weird? I could say “friendship,” but I want to cut right to the heart of the matter. The fact is that you’ll find your own North Star peopled not with folks you merely
... See moreMartha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
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Building and maintaining a great network for me requires three key things: authenticity, engagement and a genuine interest in the other person. Starting with authenticity, this requires me bringing my whole self to conversations, moving away from transactional relationships and really connecting with people.
Katie Lewis • Find Your 9others
Self-discovery gives way to self-knowledge, so you become pickier about the people you surround yourself with, according to Marla Paul, author of the book The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making, and Keeping Friends When You’re Not a Kid Anymore. “The bar is higher than when we were younger and were willing to meet almost anyone for a margarita,”
... See moreNedra Glover Tawwab • Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself
met Paul shortly before graduation,
J. Courtney Sullivan • The Cliffs: Reese's Book Club: A novel
Leading and Loving It: Encouragement for Pastors' Wives and Women in Leadership
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