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Triangulation: This is when the narcissist recruits another person to side with them to support their endeavors in harming the victim. This is most often done as a form of punishing the victim either for not doing what’s expected of them or when they finally see the light and end the toxic relationship.
Linda Hill • Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD (6 in 1): MasterClass, Workbook and Guide for Healing from Trauma and Toxic ... and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
The Serial Killer Files: The Who, What, Where, How, and Why of the World's Most Terrifying Murderers
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But as anyone who has worked with issues of so-called codependency knows, accommodation, while overtly self-denying, is in fact, also a form of control—trying to “not set him off.” I define codependent behavior as occurring when you back away from perfectly reasonable behavior—like telling the truth—for fear of your partner’s unreasonable response.
Bruce Springsteen • Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship (Goop Press)



The Rise of Neotoddlerism
they’re labeled as Borderline, Histrionic, or Narcissistic instead.