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Neurodivergence
Gina Mascarenas • 3 cards
Her identity was based on pleasing others and the fear of not being liked if she didn’t. In her experience, she was not a real person who deserved respect and who, without any fabrication or effort, was lovable.
Tara Brach • Radical Acceptance
Being Neurodivergent as a Woman
Lindsey Chapman • 1 card
Vulnerability is usually attacked, not with fists but with shaming. Many children learn quickly to cover up any signs of weakness, sensitivity, and fragility, as well as alarm, fear, eagerness, neediness, or even curiosity. Above all, they must never disclose that the teasing has hit its mark.
Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Mate • Hold on to Your Kids
This early training to “be nice” causes women to override their intuitions.
Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés • Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
Wendy Behary is a top expert in the field, the author of the book Disarming the Narcissist, and a specialist in schema therapy, a therapy developed specifically for people with NPD.