Sublime

Because this willpower ethic has become internalized, we learn at an early age to shame and manhandle our unruly parts. We simply wrestle them into submission.

to rescue you from you

inner childlike part of each of us, when not acknowledged, can run rampant in our adult life, often reacting impulsively and selfishly.

A human being who cannot feel is trapped in thinking, though he often does not know he is trapped.

In order to pursue her dream of a committed relationship, Bonnie needed to find a place at the table for the assassin, the protector of her vulnerability and independence. She needed a way of relating to this character so that it would not push away the very men she might truly desire. Eventually, she found the gold in her dark side when she realiz

From the developmental view, Darren was entering emotional adulthood, which includes the ability to discriminate between feelings and behavior. He recognized that his history would likely give rise to familiar, difficult emotions and that he did not have to allow these emotions to run his behavior or control his life. He began to live a life that w

We are dangerous when we are not conscious of our responsibility for how we behave, think, and feel.

of the emotional needs of her family, and so on.

Our defenses reflect our wounds.