Sublime

“This Is Your Life.” This is a game some couples play at the end of each year. They write out a summary of the year from their partner’s point of view. That is, they write, in the first person, about what challenges their partner faced and how he or she overcame them. Reading over these first-person accounts of your life can be an exhilarating

The friend who leaps ahead is one who’s glimpsed what you’re called to be and is willing to let you be uncomfortable as you wrestle with the call, who loves you enough to let you struggle for your soul but is standing by with a bandage and a map.

provide? He now viewed a successful relationship as one in which both people had recognized the best of what the other person had to offer and had chosen to value it as well.

What if you took 100 percent responsibility for her openness, freedom, and joy?

It’s a process of disembedding from one mindset and then re-embedding in another. An infant believes, I am my parents, but then around age two realizes: I am not my parents. I have parents. A teenager may be so embedded in the interpersonal consciousness that she believes, I am my friendships. But later she realizes: No, I am not my friendships. I