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David Barlow. He was (and still is) one of the premiere anxiety researchers on the planet.
Steven Hayes • A Liberated Mind: The essential guide to ACT
Marriage remained a popular institution, but it began to look different.
Elaine Tyler May • Homeward Bound: American Families in the Cold War Era
Part of the low-effort belief is the idea that couples should be able to read each other’s minds:
Carol S. Dweck • Mindset - Updated Edition: Changing The Way You think To Fulfil Your Potential
- One Truthful Conversation at a Time
Steven Hayes • A Liberated Mind: The essential guide to ACT
but we discovered that even in happy, stable relationships, when one person gets angry and hostile, the other person reciprocates in kind. It is the escalation of negativity, marked particularly by criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling, that predicts divorce. We found that couples who escalated conflict divorced an average of about
... See moreJohn M. Gottman • The Science of Trust
WE FELT CLOSER to our husbands, now, than we ever had before.
Julie Otsuka • The Buddha in the Attic
Married men report better mental health and live longer than single men; in contrast, married women report worse mental health, and die earlier, than single women. (These statistics do not suggest that the act of getting married is some sort of gendered hex: rather, they reflect the way that, when a man and a woman combine their unpaid domestic
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