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“A marriage can only be as healthy as the least healthy person in that partnership,”
Les Parrott • Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts: Nine Questions to Ask Before (and After) You Remarry
they assume the worst about each other to such a pervasive degree that they become trapped in an absorbing state of negativity that I call the Roach Motel for Lovers. This horrible place is marked by endless conflict and bad feelings. Couples “check in” to it and then discover they can’t get out. When couples become trapped in the Roach Motel, they
... See moreJohn Gottman • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
Gary Klein est un psychologue américain (Doctorat en cognition et psychologie sociale), né le 5 février 1944 à New York. Il a fréquemment travaillé pour le Think Tank MITRE lié au Département de la Défense américain et possède actuellement sa propre structure de conseil. Il est considéré comme le tenant d’une approche nouvelle et complémentaire aux
... See moreCécile Godé • Gary Klein - Décider en Situation Réelle
Repair attempts are a secret weapon of emotionally intelligent couples—
John Gottman • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
“You should know that when a husband or wife fight, it may seem to be about money or sex or power. But what they’re really yelling to each other about is loneliness. What they’re really saying is, ‘you’re not enough people.’”
How to build a village
Knowing about the attachment styles empowers people to harness their biology to work for them rather than against them.
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
It seems that women are less forgiving than men.