Sublime

Pose tes limites. N’empiète pas sur celles des autres. La plupart des questions que les hommes me posent découlent au fond d’une difficulté à fixer ses limites. Qu’il s’agisse d’un souci avec leur copine, d’une femme qui ne les rappelle pas ou d’une autre qui se moque d’eux, le « problème » tient simplement au fait qu’ils ne s’affirment pas : ils n

THE PARADOX OF BEING UNFUCKWITHABLE

bona fide

We’re all, for the most part, pretty average people. But it’s the extremes that get all of the publicity. We kind of know this already, but we rarely think and/or talk about it, and we certainly never discuss why this could be a problem.

What are your rough edges that people can’t find anywhere else? What have you done that will make you stand out in her mind?

Some examples of good, healthy values: honesty, innovation, vulnerability, standing up for oneself, standing up for others, self-respect, curiosity, charity, humility, creativity. Some examples of bad, unhealthy values: dominance through manipulation or violence, indiscriminate fucking, feeling good all the time, always being the center of attentio

Being open with your insecurities paradoxically makes you more confident and charismatic around others. The pain of honest confrontation is what generates the greatest trust and respect in your relationships. Suffering through your fears and anxieties is what allows you to build courage and perseverance.