Sublime

High levels of stress become a regular state of the body if we lack a system like IPW Thinking to provide us with the certainty of achieving a desired goal.

He found that the prime candidates for burnout were those who were “dedicated and committed,” trying to balance their need to give, to please others, and to work hard.

The question I ask is simply, “When you were young, who was really and consistently there for you?”

Of the many emerging descriptions of our social brain, for me the simplest and most elegant is the highly regarded Social Baseline Theory of Lane Beckes and James A. Coan, two researchers at the University of Virginia.

Fathers, it’s been argued, are actually the main “gender socializing agents” when it comes to children.

Put most simply, he borrowed my brain. We do this for one another all the time. Current research clearly indicates that we are not walled-in, freestanding individuals. Our human brains—in fact, most mammals’ brains—are built for co-regulation.

A unified legacy works toward healing the world around them and creating a better environment for all the children who come after.

What all these attachment wounds often turn into is a belief that mistreatment and misfortune is earned through behavior.

There are generally about 10 to 20 unprocessed memories that are responsible for most of the pain and suffering in most of our lives.