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Practice Wake Up Your Body Before Sex

Mind-blowing, soul-healing, life-changing sex begins with an intentional, detailed preparation to create something special for both of you. And yes, there is an art to it. How you prepare yourself and your lover for sex is as important as the sex itself, if not more so. It is in this meticulous space of creation that your devotion and generosity ca

addition to leading artful lovemaking into more energetic agility for both of you, it’s beneficial to let go of any notion of completion in sex altogether. Let go of orgasm being the end-all goal for either of you. Make connection, pleasure, depth, and love your intention—not just getting off. The irony here is that when all the pressure is removed

What if you used the time prior to coming together to amplify your devotion, desire, and love for your partner?

Enlightening your sex involves cultivating the capacity to sustain high energy over long periods of time while remaining relaxed and open. It

Midnight. We drive back to my place. I say, “OK, you can come upstairs, but only for a few minutes. I have to work tomorrow.” 12:30 A.M. We’re sitting on my balcony making out. I take her by the hand, say, “Let’s go make out like a couple of teenagers,” and lead her back into my bedroom and fuck her. Notice how this routine allows me to get in lots

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Make your first lick a slow and tender “ice cream” lick from bottom to top. Make it long and lasting. Take it all in.