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Sexually, allow yourself to surrender so fully that you feel “fucked” in your deepest parts, physically and emotionally. Allow your heart to be ravished by a force of love much larger than the penis of your man or the details of your relationship. When both you and your man let go completely during sex—while he practices invading you with conscious
... See moreDavid Deida • Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh
It involves feeling your fear of emptiness and loneliness, your yearning for love, and your denial of death.
David Deida • Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh
The game of life is to find each situation workable, to transform each occasion through the magnification of love, to give your fullest gift in every moment, and to have no attachments to the outcome, knowing it’s all going to rise and fall and rise again. You have mastered women and the world when no desire either to avoid or attain sways your lov
... See moreDavid Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)
A woman wants to feel that her man is not dependent on her. She wants to feel that her man wants her, desires her, but does not need her. A needy man is a turn-off. A man who needs to be acknowledged for his giving ruins the gift.
David Deida • Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex

Your eyes are strong regulators of energy.
David Deida • The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover
The only way to live free, the only way to live your life as an offering of love, is to feel everything fully and live open.
David Deida • Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex
there is a difference between choice and resistance. Choice is a loving, soft, intimate decision,
David Deida • Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh
Because you reject certain “ugly” textures of your own feminine incarnation of energy,