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Your sexual essence is always attracted to its energetic reciprocal. Masculine men are attracted to feminine women. Feminine men are attracted to masculine women. Balanced men are attracted to balanced women.
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)
If you have a more masculine sexual essence,
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)
Because masculine and feminine attract each other like magnets, you will attract a lover who’s essence is your reciprocal, a lover who, deep down, wants to take what you enjoy giving, who wants to give what you enjoy taking. But on the surface, your differences may drive you crazy.
David Deida • Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex
Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself, disserves the universe, and cheats his woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire


What they actually want to know is how to bring a feminine partner into their world who will want to reveal all of herself, who won’t hold back, who will offer the range of Feminine experience—her fierce feedback, her darkest fantasies, her most tender fears, and her unwavering devotion. How can they attract someone like that? Someone to bring them
... See moreJohn Wineland • From the Core: A New Masculine Paradigm for Leading with Love, Living Your Truth, and Healing the World

When you die, will you know that you have given yourself utterly to the world, to your woman, to your family, holding nothing back? Or are you still like a little boy eagerly performing for the sake of mom’s applause? Very little helps you mature beyond neediness more than the appreciation you want from your woman, but don’t get.