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HAVING A PARENT WHO DOES NOT MODEL BOUNDARIES
Nicole LePera • How To Do The Work: Recognise Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
To the detached persons reading this book: Recognize that you have been the terrible partner. Through your fear and obsessive love you have robbed your spouse of the ability to feel trusted, to feel confident, or to feel secure.
Adam Smith • Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands: Why your marriage is hurting, and how to blossom as a couple
Children, in particular, have suffered a grievous decline in just the goods that are most important to them: adult time, energy, and company. The child-rearing work that men and women and an extended family did a hundred years ago, and that women did thirty years ago, has to be done somehow by someone. The scientific moral is not that we need exper
... See moreAlison Gopnik, Andrew N. Meltzoff, • The Scientist In The Crib: Minds, Brains, And How Children Learn
If we don’t set a place at our table for our dark qualities, they are likely to paradoxically bring about the very wounding of our children that we aim to avoid.
Lisa Marchiano • Motherhood: Facing and Finding Yourself
what do we do about the monstrous people we love?
Claire Dederer • Monsters
In psychological jargon, she alienates them, or represses them, or splits them off, or projects them.
Ken Wilber • No Boundary: Eastern and Western Approaches to Personal Growth
It was a room that suggested—all those books—that human problems could be solved by the application of careful thought and considered ethics.
Claire Dederer • Monsters
Overwhelmed Kim sought therapy because she was feeling chronically