Sublime

talking to thousands of women on this subject, I’m convinced that in the moments of craving the deepest love, they are dying to be led into this type of profound and trustable sexual intimacy—beyond

what exactly is a happy, healthy sex life?

The interviews lasted between 42 minutes and 110 minutes, with an average length of 80 minutes.

One woman, who reported having had a lot of casual sex, said: “I don’t know that I’m capable of having great sex anymore without really caring about a partner. It would just be flat.” The identification of this component of optimal sexual experiences was not a big surprise. However, many of our colleagues and the laypeople with whom we discussed th

Until testosterone brought it all back. Without the testosterone, he said, “you have no desire.” Phil thought he was in love. Of course he did. As suggested above, one of the few things that reliably revives a male’s sagging testosterone levels is a novel lover.

Readers acquainted with the recent literature on human sexuality will be familiar with what we call the standard narrative of human sexual evolution (hereafter shortened to “the standard narrative”). It goes something like this: 1. Boy meets girl. 2. Boy and girl assess one another’s mate value from perspectives based upon their differing reproduct