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Do I get angry in a way that causes my child to shrink back, always agree, or hide thoughts and feelings?
Kent Hoffman • Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child's Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore
- Problem-Solving Together
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
be sure you’re talking about the right things (Chapter 3, “Choose your Topic”), how to get your motives right (Chapter 4, “Start with Heart”), and how to understand and manage your own emotions when they’re getting in the way of dialogue (Chapter 5, “Master My Stories”).
Kerry Patterson • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition
The gold standard here is working for mutual understanding. Not mutual agreement,
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
one basic error: we make an attribution about another person’s intentions based on the impact of their actions on us.
Roger Fisher • Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most
Dan Rothstein; you can read more about his foundation’s work and techniques in his book Make Just One Change.
Ian Leslie • Curious
Leyla Acaroglu • System Failures: The Education System and the Proliferation of Reductive Thinking
“Does anyone see it differently?” “What am I missing here?” “I’d really like to hear the other side of this story.”
Kerry Patterson • Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition
Enter the Swiss political philosopher and polymath Jean-Jacques Rousseau, who shocked the world with Émile: or On Education ([1762] 1993). Émile is the eponymous pupil-hero of Rousseau’s treatise on child-rearing and education; his book contains passages such as this: Instead of keeping [Émile] mewed up in a stuffy room, take him out into a meadow
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