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Oliver Burkeman • Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals
over 50 percent are secure, around 20 percent are anxious, 25 percent are avoidant, and the remaining 3 to 5 percent fall into the fourth, less common category (combination anxious and avoidant).
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
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Nowhere are adults more dependent than in the relationship they have with their partners, and at no other time was this dependency as strong as it was in childhood. Therefore, the normal emotional dependency in long-term relationships inevitably contains echoes of these earlier attachments. There is an old joke that says that when two people have
... See moreMichael J. Bader • Arousal
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researchgate.netIn his great work Separation Anxiety (1959), Bowlby argues that those who have been let down by the early family environment will generally develop two kinds of responses when they grow up and face difficulties or ambiguities in relationships: firstly, a tendency towards fearful, clinging and controlling behaviour—the pattern Bowlby calls “anxious
... See moreAlain de Botton • The Course of Love: A Novel
