you don’t need to understand yourself fully. you can’t. you are an organism of complexity beyond your own comprehension
all you need to do is notice what you notice, meet it with love & warmth, and allow yourself space to bloom
what is my purpose in life?
vs.
what brings me alive at THIS point in my life?
What if purpose is just a moment-to-moment conversation with your soul?
I love this; via @corymuscara
Authenticity is doing and saying what feels right to you in all moments.
You have no judgement of yourself. You don’t overthink, perform, or strategize to get people to receive you in a specific way. You understand that your real tribe will stay, and the rest will fall away.
Everyone is afraid of “niching down” because they want to be seen as the multifaceted human they are, but committing yourself to a few good ideas is quite literally the only path to greatness.
there's this feeling which is the opposite of audience capture - this feeling when you find a group of people who give you permission to be more and more illegible and spontaneous
i love that feeling
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Boundaries are not saying no.
Or making sure something doesn't happen.
Or distancing.
Or even letting yourself have wants in the face of others'.
A boundary is simply "If you do X, I will do Y."
Good boundaries:
- don't require anything from the other person
- are kind for the other person
- bring you closer emotionally (i.e. you find the per... See more