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a reminder that my job doesn’t have to always be enjoyable. take a different perspective on work. be grateful for what it enables. who it impacts. who it serves.
We can’t address the decline in empathy without addressing the decline in attention . Empathy requires a degree of sustained focus:
When we are fragmented and distracted , we simply can’t com... See more
- Paying attention to an experience someone is sharing
- Recalling experiencing a similar emotional response
- Sitting with your own and the other person’s inner state
When we are fragmented and distracted , we simply can’t com... See more
Dr. Samaiya Mushtaq • Dr. Samaiya Mushtaq on Substack
a note on empathy and attention I liked
Drew Sylva on TikTok
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Relationship between the sound of a dying fire alarm and being broke and the prefrontal cortex. Very cool video - smart person. Inspiring!! I love sociology!! Psychology!! The impact of stress and trauma on the HPA Axis.
Conversational chemistry - expecting something out of a conversation too quickly, without giving it time. Tips on how to engage in more meaningful, deep conversations.
Quynh on TikTok
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Lots of great thoughts here. Us becoming “products” ourselves, forgetting we are human. Uber capitalist. Constant self-optimisation. Rewatch and take notes of this!!
TikTok - Make Your Day
vt.tiktok.comWhy are men more “homosocial” than women? I want to know more about the concept of homosocial - where does it come from, is it new, how do we address it? Stuff like this reaffirms my interest in sociology.
Tell The Bees on TikTok
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because of the male loneliness epidemic, women often become tasked with the emotional labour of men - being their sole emotional support and sometimes pseudotherapist. Women are socialised to be this way, to “fix” men. Like a kind of mothering role. A mothering of the partner.
How to Manage Multiple Interests & Actually CREATE Something
youtube.comI love you Anna Howard!!!
It’s easier to recognize beauty than it is to create it. You’re good enough to know that what you’re doing isn’t good, but not good enough to produce something great. When you find yourself in this frustrating limbo, the challenge is to never forget what got you there in the first place. Remember that thing that got you into the game.
Your love. You... See more
Your love. You... See more