Ebony Casagrande
@phoebeblue
Ebony Casagrande
@phoebeblue
In his room, she fights his waning interest. Her sense that he is sliding away even when he is right there, as much of him touching her as possible, makes her worry she is losing her mind.
E-flux journal, Silvia Federici.
Since her conversation with Harry, she has felt painfully alert, both vulnerable and dangerous, as though she were wrapped in explosives.
He does not understand that he cannot understand, that the loves of others are unfathomable.
“No. The secret is nothing compared to everything else. You can have a secret that stops mattering.”
Woah this churns some little writing demon inside of me — the way something so poisoned as a secret could leach all the way dry.
“We want to call work what is work so that eventually we might rediscover what is love and create what will be our sexuality which we have never known.” Silvia Federici, Wages Against Housework
We need to separate work from love — we currently think love is what is actually unpaid labour, we think we will receive love when we structure our lives around this unpaid labour, but that is not love. I’m trying to really figure out what love is, when we look at it outside of female labour.