Mollie Dunn
@molliedunn
Mollie Dunn
@molliedunn
He finds it hard to trust or depend on others, or even to let them have their own space — space that he does not control. He still harbors a deep, unconscious terror that he will once again be used and betrayed. Dominating every situation becomes his only way of creating a sense of safety for himself. He does, however, become skillful at making things happen in the world, and this becomes one of the gifts of the aggressive pattern.
Gatherings are the root of all democracy. Gatherings create meaning, and fill holes in your soul. So we need you to host (or at least help host) a gathering, whether it’s a few girls for wine and a Hallmark movie, or renting a house for 15 people for an entire weekend. And we need everyone to strive to be a good guest, so everyone hosting gatherings continues to do so with delight.