Be Careful What You Reach For
Boredom carves out space.
Your choice is what fills it.
Distraction is fast.
Creation is slow.
One makes you forget who you are.
The other helps y... See more
When You're Bored, You're Being Shaped.
Boredom isn’t the absence of stimulation. It’s a test. Of what you reach for. Of what you default to.
Do you grab your phone? Or a pen? Do you scroll? Or sit with your thoughts? Do you numb? Or build?
Because what you do wh... See more
I have 3 ex-gfs where we've remained friends, long after the relationship ended. The longest friendship has been +20 years. During their marriage, I would stayed super low-key so as not to risk impacting their relationships (don't want their spouses/bf to get jealous or feel threatened). I genuinely try to help them in their lives--it's a genuine f... See more