Elston Howard Bell, Jr.
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Elston Howard Bell, Jr.
Who is to blame, then, when everyone is innocent? And what is the value of blame at all?
from An American Marriage by Tayari Jones
I enjoyed these questions from Tayari’s book, which made me reflect in important ways.
Talking about blame distracts us from exploring why things went wrong and how we might correct them going forward.
from Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone
The distinction between blame and contribution may seem subtle. But it is a distinction worth working to understand, because it will make a significant difference in your ability to handle difficult conversations.
from Difficult Conversations by Douglas Stone
Awareness and curiosity are the design mind-sets you need to begin building your way forward.
from Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life by Dave Evans
- björk said that trying to communicate through talking feels like trying to put the ocean through a straw