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Being in a single linear path to your dreams is not the way to live.
Don't Follow Your Dreams, Follow Your Tools
youtube.comDon’t follow your dreams, Follow your tools . . . a single dream doesn’t work because things that are part of your toolkit (your passions, your relationships, your curiosities) pass by and you just let them go and do nothing about them.
Marie-Louise von Franz (a Jungian psychologist) puts it bluntly: when you don’t live out your creative side, the energy doesn’t disappear. It misfires. You obsess, overthink, romanticize the wrong people, catastrophize the small stuff — all because your potential has nowhere to land.
Sometimes, the restlessness isn’t about them. It’s... See more
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thinking of myself about this a lot these days
A hindering fear almost always follows a what-if approach to anything new. To fully engage your curiosity, learn to distinguish between valid fears and unsubstantiated ones. For those who engage in life-threatening pursuits, much as Canadian adventurer and storm chaser George Kourounis does, curiosity itself can be the best way to overcome fear.
... See moreDr Costas Andriopoulos • Purposeful Curiosity
Getting psyched about a curiosity project requires a sense of urgency. You need to tap into your sense of yearning to explore what you find meaningful, and you must remind yourself that this is a time-limited quest. You only live once, after all. When others say, “It cannot be done,” the curious respond, “If we start now, we might be able to do
... See moreDr Costas Andriopoulos • Purposeful Curiosity
Replace passive participation by creating opportunities to apply concepts you are learning, designing a learning strategy that’s tailored to your needs, and setting aside time for regular reflection so that you can make timely adjustments.
Teachers are only there to help you change your mind, to model possibility, good books exist to guide you, but... See more
Teachers are only there to help you change your mind, to model possibility, good books exist to guide you, but... See more
Anyone Who Has Ever Mastered a Skill is Self-Taught
mastery , self-learning , skills , self-help
There’s something intimate about never speaking to someone again. You think of them at random times, feel closer from afar than you ever did up close, and wish them well in silence. The pull of what was left unsaid lingers, memories that never age, a name that carries a season of your life. Not longing, just a quiet knowing. Some people stay with... See more
waezaaaasubstack.combjörk said that trying to communicate through talking feels like trying to put the ocean through a straw
Suzy Welch - How to Make Better Decisions With the 10/10/10 Technique - Nordic Business Forum
youtube.com10/10/10 rule
determining your values:
-what would make you cry on your 75th birthday?
-what do you want people to say about you when you’re not in the room?
-what did you love about your childhhod and what did you not love about your childhood? what lifestyle did you want to continue?