Frederic Stallaert

Often we fail to improve our lives simply because things don't get bad enough. If your new job is hell, you’ll leave it, but if it’s just unsatisfying, you’ll likely grind it out. Thus, small problems often threaten our quality of life more than big ones.

Healing is not becoming the best version of ourselves. Healing is letting the worst version of ourselves be loved.

Generic ambition will give you anxiety. Specific ambition will give you direction.

Changing the interpretation of the past is critical to controlling the future.

I want to beg you, as much as I can, dear sir, to be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live ev... See more

Seems like one of the highest leverage stories for many ppl (me included) to reprogram is the one that goes like: >I am struggling >I am struggling and it is my fault >I am struggling and it is my fault and I have to deal with this on my own >I am going to isolate myself until I am presentable for other humans

“In the past, jobs were about muscles. Now they’re about brains, but in the future, they’ll be about the heart.”