Erika
@driftwoodbuffet
Erika
@driftwoodbuffet
The Absent but Implicit:
Persons make meaning of an experience through contrasting it with other experiences, so that in order to distinguish something as a problem we must be contrasting it to some preferred experience. To know the experience of hate we must have some sense of love.
Source: Madigan, S. (2019). Narrative therapy (2nd ed.)
Emotional granularity:
The ability to put our feelings or emotions into words (internally or otherwise) with a high degree of specificity and precision.
Research shows that when we self-identify our unpleasant emotional state in precise and narrow terms, we improve our emotional intelligence, our overall well-being and resilience to the emotion at
... See moreImpatience is an argument with reality - Rick Rubin
All of us have to learn how to invent our lives, make them up, imagine them. We need to be taught these skills; we need guides to show us how. Without them, our lives get made up for us by other people.