Kayoung Heo
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Kayoung Heo
Love is showing up at 70 when your partner is only at a 30. Love is communicating when you’re at a 40 and you need your partner to pick up the extra 10 that day. Love is compromise and sacrifice, which is why it is such a good teacher.
Livi Redden • The Sooner You Know, The Better: Dear Teens and Twentysomethings, It's Time to Fully Face Your Fears About the Future & Embrace Who You Are
less about finding answers and more about asking better questions.
g.m. • How To Research Niche Ideas in Literature and Philosophy
When I think about an ideal marriage, I think about two people who can be the most childlike version of themselves, and be accepted as a whole.
But here's what troubles me about this whole arrangement: we know belief isn't built on truth. It's built on repetition . The thoughts we return to, consciously or not, become something much more powerful than fleeting mental events. They become the raw material from which we construct our mental models —those invisible lenses through which we perc... See more
thinking about thinking
I’m no longer content to ask, “What do you think about X?” Instead, I ask, “How did you come to believe X?”
David Brooks • How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
The thing is, you probably have all the information you need already, you just can't bring yourself to sit down and listen to it, so you just keep chain-smoking podcasts and youtube videos, never really thinking, knowing deep down that the answers you seek are in the silence you're avoiding
The problem is that we dream, plan, imagine, basically do anything but act. Not because we don’t care, but because we care too much .
We don't procrastinate out of laziness, but self-preservation
there will be times when one partner can only give 10% because they are sick or exhausted, and the other person must step in and give 90% to make the relationship work.