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But that is not how the mind works. First of all, the mind doesn’t truly care about “success”; it just wants to feel loved and then it mistakenly assumes that that is what “success” will bring. Second, whether or not your life feels “lame” is really a matter of how earnestly you pay attention to the world, rather than how much “success” you’ve achieved. In other words: “success”, in the conventional sense, can be completely decoupled from your happiness, and so can failure.