WTF is... "I"
Being direct is a way of cultivating your ability to feel rightness rather than attempting to intellectualize your way to it.
People who are habitually indirect tend to find themselves in relationships where they always feel somewhat frustrated and somewhat misunderstood. “It’s good, but something about it is dissatisfying. Something is missing.”
This is because people who are indirect don’t have much experience with their inner world making contact with the outer world. They sit and theorize instead of saying it out loud and seeing what happens.
easy way to understand the self is an illusion: the self is a process and the inly stable thing is the consciousness that witnesses that process
feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky, conscious breathing is my anchor
There is simply everything arising as it does and being known as it is in the condition of consciousness. You are not at the edge or in the middle of it, you are identical to it
Everything That Turned Out Well in My Life Followed the Same Design Process
Henrik Karlssonhenrikkarlsson.xyz
Instead you say, “I’m just going to pay attention to what happens when I hang out with various people and iterate toward something that feels alive”