Wtf even is balance
I think balance as an ideal and concept is grossly overrated, if you’re energized and passionate there’s no point fighting this, there are times when I’m driven to work like a mad man and this brings great joy.
The Talks • Dennis Paphitis: “Life Without Some Excess, Forget It”
One of the great balancing acts in life is to be cautious and daring at the same time. Cautious enough to avoid stupid mistakes, prevent burnout, and maintain a margin of safety. Daring enough to bet on yourself, to do the things you would regret leaving undone, and to be willing to be uncomfortable in the short term so you can learn and grow in th
... See moreBalance is flexibility in the face of change; perfect balance is perfect flexibility in the face of constant change.
Deepak Chopra M.D. • Perfect Health--Revised and Updated: The Complete Mind Body Guide
Our mental image of balance is somewhat distorted because we tend to equate it with stillness—the calm repose of a yogi balancing on one leg, a state without apparent motion. To my mind, the more accurate examples of balance come from sports, such as when a basketball player spins around a defender, a running back bursts through the line of scrimma
... See moreEd Catmull • Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration
We buy into the admittedly alluring goal of balance because we believe two false promises. The first promise is that life is generally static.
Katherine Morgan Schafler • The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
The second promise is that all your most basic and complex needs, longings, desires—all those lush, rolling, verdant, dewdrop-dotted hills of wanderlust inside you, all your curiosities big and small—could be met in the first place, and that they could be met simultaneously, and still, that they could all be met simultaneously while you’re also rea
... See moreKatherine Morgan Schafler • The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
My response is less “Don’t worry, we all struggle to figure it out,” and more “Don’t worry, balance doesn’t exist.”
Katherine Morgan Schafler • The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
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